Scenario index
Pick your exact situation, choose a tone, and copy a message you can send now without overexplaining.
Quick access
Pick a category first, then compare scripts inside that section. This is the fastest way to find your exact scenario.
Library overview
The scenarios library includes 20 practical text guides for boundary-setting, respectful rejection, relationship clarity, and professional communication.
Each guide includes tone options (gentle, standard, firm), ready-to-send scripts, and follow-up replies for common pushback patterns.
Quick workflow
Use this flow when you need a calm, clear response and do not want to keep rewriting your message.
Common questions before choosing a script.
Start with the conflict pattern that best matches your conversation. If two feel close, open both and pick the script with the clearest boundary line.
Yes. The scripts are templates. Keep the boundary and next step intact, then adjust names, timing, and context so it sounds natural for you.
Use standard tone first in most cases. Switch to gentle when the relationship is sensitive, or firm when your limit has already been ignored.
Each guide includes follow-up replies. Use one follow-up that repeats your boundary without adding new arguments.
Start with the 30-second quiz for fast guidance, or jump straight to a category and pick the closest scenario.
fwb boundaries
Boundary texts for FWB situations: expectations, communication, and limits.
Open guidelate night texting
Ready-to-send texts for when someone only messages at night. Keep it clear without drama.
Open guideask consistency
Clear texts to request consistency, communication, and mutual effort.
Open guidewhat are we
Text templates to ask relationship status directly, without sounding desperate.
Open guidedecline hookup
Respectful texts to decline hookups while staying clear and safe.
Open guidedefine relationship
Text scripts to define the relationship without sounding needy or aggressive.
Open guidemoving too fast
Use these texts to set pace and protect your comfort in early dating.
Open guideset boundaries
Boundary text examples for dating, friends, and exes. Gentle to firm versions.
Open guideneed space
Text templates to ask for space clearly while reducing conflict.
Open guidenot ready relationship
Message templates to say you are not ready, kindly and clearly.
Open guidepolite rejection
Copy-paste rejection texts that are respectful, short, and final.
Open guidemixed signals
Use these clear text scripts when he is hot-and-cold. Gentle, direct, and firm options you can send now.
Open guideoverreacting response
Text replies when someone dismisses your feelings as overreacting.
Open guidesay no
Use these polite no texts for invites, dates, and plans you do not want.
Open guidecancellations
Text scripts for repeated cancellations: reset expectations or walk away.
Open guideboundary crossing
Boundary violation text scripts with follow-up replies if they push back.
Open guidebreakup kind
Kind breakup text examples that are honest, short, and not confusing.
Open guideex contact
Text scripts for setting no-contact or low-contact boundaries with an ex.
Open guidestop texting
Polite but firm scripts to end unwanted messaging.
Open guideworkplace boundaries
Message examples for after-hours contact, tone issues, and role boundaries at work.
Open guide