Do I need to justify declining a hookup?
No. Consent and preference do not require explanation.
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No mixed message. No guilt.
You can decline a hookup without apologizing for your boundary.
Ready-to-send scripts
StandardI am not interested in hooking up.
No thanks, that is not for me.
I want to be clear that I am not available for that.
If they push back
- No is my final answer.
- Please stop pushing this.
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FAQs
How do I stay safe when declining?
Keep messages brief, avoid live confrontation if unsafe, and block if needed.
Can polite language still be clear?
Yes. Kind tone with direct no language works best.
What if they keep persuading me?
Repeat no once, then disengage and use platform safety tools.
Can I use this message in a phone call instead of text?
Yes. Keep the same core point and shorten it to one or two clear sentences for spoken delivery.
When should I switch to a firmer tone?
Use firm tone after your boundary has been stated clearly and is still ignored. Repeat once, then follow through.
Need deeper support?
These third-party resources can help with communication skills and emotional boundaries.
Boundary Skills Mini Course
Short practical lessons on calm, respectful boundary communication.
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Guided prompts for hard conversations without guilt spirals.
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